Just like people, dogs have individual personalities and traits. Certain
breeds tend to produce dominant personality types. Within each litter of
puppies there is also a variety of personality types-from dominant to
submissive. If you are adopting a dog that exhibits a dominant,
assertive personality, the following information will be helpful in
establishing your new relationship.
of a dominant, assertive dog:
assertive dogs think of themselves as the leader in your family or
"pack". This is natural for the dog but sometimes it is
difficult for the human to understand. These dogs are often ready to
challenge for the right to lead. Once allowed to become the leader, the
dog may be willing to fight to retain the position.
Dominant dogs do not, as a rule, do well around children. They will not
tolerate the quick movements and unpredictable handling typical of
children. Unless you are
there to carefully supervise, do not allow these dogs to be around
Dominant dogs may be small or large. A small dog with an assertive
personality can be just as possessive, protective and pushy as any large
dog of the same temperament. Do not tolerate aggressive behavior from
either of them. Small or large, a growl or snap is likely to lead to a
bite. Small or large dogs that bite are dangerous.
Dominant dogs may be subtle in their manipulation of you. When you stop
stroking the dog, he may nudge you to continue. If you resume the
stoking in response to the nudging, he has successfully trained you to
treat him as the leader. Assertive dogs take compliance to mean they
have the right to make you obey them. They nudge, you stroke, they
growl, you resume stroking. It is one small step to growling at you when
you try to make them get off the couch, followed by snapping when you
insist they obey.
with a dominant assertive dog doesn’t mean you can't let your dog
sleep on the couch or have him in your lap when you stroke him. It just means you need to be very aware of how the dog is
interpreting your actions. You
need to learn the dog's language. You
also need to learn about leadership, so that you can be in charge
instead of a dog calling the shots, if you are in charge, you have the
right to allow the dog on the couch and also to make him get off the
couch when you want. If you are not willing to be an assertive leader,
do not adopt a dog with this personality type. Both you and the dog will
be happier if you select a more submissive dog. Two things help make a
positive relationship with a dominant dog. The first is obedience
training and the second is to establish you as the pack leader.
Establishing oneself as the pack leader and to be followed.
and Principles Behind It
For obedience training to proceed smoothly, your dog must consider you
its alpha leader. This means that it considers YOU the boss. There are a
number of exercises you can do to establish and maintain dominance over
your dog. Individual dogs vary in submissiveness. If your dog is very
submissive, you don't need to worry about establishing dominance (in
fact, you may need to tone down your own dominating behavior to help
bolster its confidence). Most dogs are happy to be submissive: just be
sure to show approval at the occasional signs of submission, and assert
dominance if it tries to test you (most dogs will, in adolescence). A
very few dogs may be dominant and continually challenge you for
dominance, in which case you will actively need to assert and establish
often, people will misinterpret adolescent high energy or bratty
behavior as ploys for dominance when they are not. Think of a
two-year-old human child testing her parents. She's finding out what the
limits are rather than actually "challenging" her parents for
leadership. Puppies and young dogs do exactly the same thing. Correct
them firmly, but don't go into an all out "dominance battle"
when not appropriate. Returning to the toddler analogy, the most you
might do is a sharp “No-Sit”, or a cuff up under the chin then a
No-sit. You would not pick her up; hold her against the wall and scream
at her. Remember that most dogs are still "young".
Only apply additional pressure or corrections as they grow or are
older and do it along with supervision.
If you are not sure how to correct a dominant dog contact your breeder
for additional help.
mistake being alpha with punishment
An alpha leader is
fair. An alpha leader deserves its position. An alpha leader does not
use fear, punishment or brute force to achieve and maintain its
position. An alpha leader, instead, makes it crystal clear what
behaviors it approves of and which it do not. An alpha leader expects
its subordinates to follow its lead; it does not force them to.
If you get mad at your dog, or angry or furious, you've lost the
alpha position. Dogs do not understand fury. You have to be calm and
focused. You must teach
them the command and show them what you want, and then expect that from
show approval at signs of submission.
Praise your dog when it drops its eyes first. Praise it when it
licks you under the chin. Give it an enthusiastic tummy rub when it
rolls over on its back. Be
consistent and fair in your corrections.
must demonstrate to your dog that it can trust your orders.
Do not ever correct the dog after the
corrections appear to be arbitrary and unfair to the dog, because it has
no associative memory the way people do.
If your dog is still a puppy, socializing it is a good way to
gain its trust. If
you decide that some action requires correction, *always* give a
correction when you see that action. For example, if you decide that
your dog is not allowed on the sofa, then *always* correct it when you
see it on the sofa. Consistency
can be a big challenge with a family.
Every family member must agree on the basic ground rules with the
dog; when and for what it should be corrected, what commands to use and
so on. Families must cooperate extensively to avoid confusing the dog.
It is best if only one person “actively” trains the dog but all must
participate; thereafter if the commands are given the same way, everyone
in the family can use them. Finally, always use the minimum correction
necessary. If a sharp AH-AH will do, use that rather than an alpha roll.
If a pop under the chin will do, use that rather than a scruff shake.
the dog's challenges
Especially during adolescence, your dog may test and/or challenge your
position. Do not neglect to correct this behavior. You don't need to
come down like a ton of bricks; just making it clear you don't tolerate
the behavior is sufficient. BE FIRM! For example, don't let your dog crowd you
through the door, don't let him jump out of the car until you've given
him permission, don't let him jump for food in your hand. Don't let him
ignore commands that he knows.
how to display alpha behavior
You may not need to use all of these, but you should be familiar with
them. They are listed in "escalating" order. Do not use any of
these if you are angry or upset. The point is never to hurt the dog, but
to show it who is alpha. They work best if you are calm, firm, and
matter of fact. Again, always use the minimum correction necessary. More
important than knowing how to perform an alpha roll is learning to
play the alpha role. That means having the attitude of "I-am-always-right-and-I-will-never-let-my-dog-willfully-disobey-me"
without ever becoming angry or giving up. Picture a small two-year old
toddler. You're not in a struggle over who's "Mom" but over
what the child is allowed to do, and there's a crucial difference in the
an alpha roll on a dog that is already submissive but disobeys because
it doesn't know what is expected of is destructive to the
relationship between you and the dog. Likewise, using an alpha role on a
dominant dog but not using any other positive reinforcements can
alienate it. Most dogs never need to be alpha rolled in their lives.
Furthermore, alpha rolls are one of the strongest weapons in
dominance arsenal. Save it for the gravest of infractions. Being
dominant is no substitute for learning to read and understand your dog.
Proper obedience (which should be a part of any dog's life, even when
"only" a pet) is a two way street and requires you to be as
responsible to your dog as your dog is responsive to you.
are a number of ways in demonstrating dominance:
Timeouts: put the dog on a down stay or
if not yet trained to do so, lay the dog on its back and hold it there
for a while once the dog stops struggling you can then let it up. This
is often surprisingly effective, since dogs are such social creatures.
alphas "stare down" subordinates. If your dog does not back
down in a stare contest, start a verbal correction. As soon as it backs
down, praise it.
under the chin: alpha dogs nip subordinates under the chin as
corrections. You can use this by tapping your dog under the chin with
your fingers. Don't tap on top of the muzzle, not only can you risk
injuring your dog's sense of smell, you may make him hand-shy.
under the ears: alpha dogs will chomp under subordinate dogs' ears
and shake. You can mimic this by holding the skin under your dog's ears
firmly and shaking. Again, do not use excessive force. Do this just
enough to get the point across. DO NOT grab the top of the neck and
shake. You may injure your dog this way.
on decorous behavior
Feed your dog after your own dinner. Make him lay down while you are
eating rather than beg at your lap. Don't let it crowd through a doorway
ahead of you. Don't let it hop out of the car until you say OK. There
are a variety of small things you can do that assert your dominance in a
non-traumatic way. If you're clever about it, you can use them to get a
well-behaved dog (one that doesn't shoot out of the front door or
scramble out of the car or beg at the table). In particular, putting a
behavior that the dog wants to do on hold until you say OK is a very
good way to be the alpha and keep the dog well behaved.
sure your dog obeys everyone in your family
This is a fairly important point. If your dog seems to have trouble
obeying a particular family member, you must make sure it does so, by
always backing up the family member when he or she tells the dog to do
something. If the family member seems to be afraid of the dog, or is
very young, then you should supervise all interaction until the problem
to use in advanced socializing and training only!
Aggression with other Dogs
Dogs can be aggressive with other dogs, especially if they have not been
properly socialized with other dogs in puppy-hood. Sometimes a dog that
is naturally dominant has trouble with other dogs especially in puberty.
Sometimes a dog has a specific experience (e.g. a dogfight with another
aggressive dog) that causes it to become aggressive toward other dogs in
general as well. Whatever the reason, it is well worth your time working
on your dog's aggression toward other dogs. You will probably get the
best results, especially with a problem dog -- extreme aggression, for
example -- if you contact a local trainer (preferably one that
specializes in problem dogs) for individual help. However, there are
some common-sense things you can do.
a bit of basic dog psychology: friendly behaviors include moving side by
side, sniffing butts, tails wagging at body level (not up high or over the
back). Not-friendly behaviors include meeting face-to-face when
approaching, ears forward and tail over back.
them into friendly behaviors as follows: walk the dogs in parallel on
leash. They should be close enough to see each other but not close enough
to snap at or touch each other. Be careful when you two turn that the dogs
don't tangle. Make sure one doesn't get ahead of the other: keep them
parallel. Keep this up until they relax. Slowly start walking closer
together as behavior permits.
one dog on leash in a sit. Have food treats and a water bottle handy. Walk
the other dog toward it, to about six feet, and then turn away (increase
the distance if the sitting dog snarls). The idea is to turn away *before*
the sitting dog shows any aggression. If the dog shows no aggression,
reward it with a food tidbit or verbal praise. Do NOT touch the dog (stand
on the leash or tie it down). If it does growl, spray it with water.
Switch the dogs so that each experiences sitting or walking toward. They
are learning that good things happen without defensive behavior. As they
improve, start walking a bit closer before turning. If the sitting dog
snarls, do NOT turn the other dog away: the person with the sitting dog
should correct it and when the dog subsides, THEN the moving dog should
holding the head of one dog, but allowing it to stand, have the other dog
investigate its rear briefly. This is really the extreme extension of the
above. These exercises have
several purposes. One is to force the dogs to consider themselves friendly
by engaging in the behavior of friendly dogs. The other is to teach both
dogs that an approaching dog is not necessarily grounds for aggression.
will take a lot of work, probably over a couple of months, but they will
work, and what's more, should reduce tensions with other dogs as well
(i.e., not only between the two specific dogs in the exercises). If you
still have issues with an aggressive dog, contact your breeder for